BestSelf Intimacy Deck
Beyond Polite Inquiries
One hundred and fifty psychology-backed prompts designed to turn romantic curiosity into genuine, unhurried vulnerability.
Why we like this gift.
Small talk has a shelf life of about forty-five minutes before it curdles into polite resume comparisons. The Intimacy Deck is BestSelf's answer to the bedroom-adjacent questions you'd never dare ask out of nowhere. It categorizes prompts into past experiences, future dreams, and physical desires, giving two curious people permission to skip the defensive banter and find out what actually makes the other tick.
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The right kind of occasion.
An unhurried evening in after you've already discovered you genuinely like each other's company.
Make it a moment.
Pick five cards each, discard the two that feel like homework, and answer the remaining three with absolute candor.
Try this opening line
“I brought a polite way to ask the impolite questions we're both currently wondering about.”
Before you buy.
Contains 150 cards across five intimacy categories. Some prompts probe romantic history and personal insecurities, so pace yourselves accordingly.
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